Forget about sugar-coated tales. This is news from the grapevine. The myth about Namibian women is revealed. Here is what to expect when you date a Namibian woman from the North, South, East and West.
Damara Women
There are some good Damara women, but a Damara woman is one
of the most difficult woman to understand and deal with. They are known to be deceptive,
stubborn, dishonest, tricky, unreliable and just being a pain in the neck for
no reason. They like fighting over small things, for example her dollar that
went missing, the two dollar that you owe her or why you are asking for your clothes/phone
that you borrowed her. They like to bite the hand that feeds them. They thrive
on noise, alcohol, drugs and general disorderliness. They are afraid of a quiet
and orderly environment, a structured life scares them. Bring a Damara woman
into a quiet and upmarket suburb, and she will get depressed. Take her to a
noisy place or ghetto shebeen and she will like you.
Damaras like squandering money on beer, drugs, tattoos and
expensive stuff that adds no value to their personal status. Literally, they
can’t help themselves, they are always broke, trying to live a life they can’t
afford. Besides being careless and reckless with money, they are also selfish
and manipulative.
When you are dating a Damara woman, she makes it a point to
invite all her friends, cousins and buddies. Today, she will bring two friends.
On the third date she will bring four friends and ask you to buy beer for all
of them.
Damara women like to be dominant in a relationship and as a
result they find it difficult to keep a man. It’s very difficult to be in a
steady long-term relationship with a Damara woman. They like hopping from one
relationship to another. Most of her relationships are short-lived, lasting only
three or six months. Even if she happens to last more than a year in a
relationship, she will be whoring around with 3 or 6 guys on her phone, who are
given names like Cousin, Uncle or Brother.
When it comes to sex, the Damara woman will please you if
she is into you, it doesn’t matter if you are her boyfriend or not. A lot of
them think sex is the only way to get or keep a man, so she will neglect other
areas such as character, etiquette, responsibility, education, reliability,
honesty and values. It doesn’t come as a surprise that the Damara woman likes
the woman-on-top position in the bedroom, it’s in her nature to be dominant. She
likes fast and aggressive sex, and she wants to be the one who fucks you, not
the other way around. Dark Damaras have a thing for light-skinned guys, but
most of the time it doesn’t work out, the mother is left with a fatherless baby
who is ashamed of associating with her ‘dark-skinned’ mother.
Damaras are perennial beggars with broken homes, they don’t
like school or upgrading themselves. They don’t plan for the future, and they
don’t care about tomorrow. Most of them get pregnant at 16 and 17 years, but
that’s not the end, she will make more kids with unknown fathers, and leave
them in the care of her mother or grandmother. She will run away from home to
drink beer and smoke dagga with friends at clubs. She will sleep overnight at
birthday parties and come home drunk in the morning.
She lacks discipline or rather she can’t be disciplined. Her
parents just don’t care or they are simply tired of her. She brings this
indiscipline into her adult life and relationships. The result – most Damara
women have a high rate of divorce or they are single mothers.
Herero Women
Except for sexual relationships with uncles, cousins and
other male members of the extended family, Herero women have many qualities
that a man would want. She is known to be submissive to his man, reasonable and
highly skilled in the bedroom. Among all tribes in Namibia, Herero women are
the best in bed. They offer the most sensual love making that will get you to
ninth heaven. A Herero woman is a typical African Queen that knows what a man
wants. Hereros understand the value of education, so they send their children
to school and tertiary institutions.
However, you have to understand that Herero women come from
different backgrounds and regions. The ones from the countryside are the most
traditional and they have managed to preserve their values and customs such as
respect for elders, traditional dressing, Lobola and the secrets of maintaining
a relationship. These women are not into alcohol abuse and other social ills.
You cannot say the same about the city Herero woman. The
urban Herero woman likes getting drunk every weekend or whenever she gets the
chance. The influence of the city is too much for her, she is easily distracted
by shiny objects. She makes a lot of guy friends who are not only friends, but
friends with benefits.
Most of the times, this woman can’t resist advances from multiple
men. She feels obliged to please her male friends sexually, and as a result she
ends up with many complicated relationships as she tries to choose the right guy.
If you get into fights or trouble with this woman, she may threaten to call her
friends (who are usually male) to come and deal with you.
One thing that urbanized Herero women are known for are
fidelity issues. They love good sex, so if you can’t satisfy her, she will find
a discreet sex partner. They love strong guys “a real man” who is good in bed.
Unlike the selfish Damara woman who loves squandering money,
Herero women are conservative and concerned for their partner. She doesn’t need
expensive things. She just wants a guy who can stand on his own feet. This is
another aspect of Herero women that makes them endearing to men.
Wambo Women
Wambo women come from a cultural background where men are to
be respected and to a certain extent feared. They have high respect for the
typical Wambo man who rules with an iron fist, and who makes decisions for the family.
However, this respect is not replicated outside the tribal clan when she is
dating or married to a non-Wambo.She tends to be submissive and understanding
when she is with her village home boy, and irritating when she is dating a
non-Wambo.
You have to be firm like a Wambo guy if you want to earn her
respect. Wambo guys don’t like nonsense and they don’t like a woman who is
disrespectful. If you are too flexible from the beginning, you are giving her
the green light
to challenge you in the future.
Wambo women can get so romantically
involved to the point of suicide, so you should never play with her feelings if
you do not intend to marry her. The situation is made worse if she so dependent
on you or if she is estranged from her family.
Taking your relationship further with a
Wambo woman can get you into a lot of complications with her family, especially
her parents and grandparents who need to approve the partner before getting
engaged. Marrying outside of the tribe is something that is often disapproved
by elders. It is a taboo in most Wambo families for a
woman or man to marry against their parents’ or grandparents’ wishes. If
someone decides to go ahead with their plans, the consequences include being disowned
by the family or being cursed by elders.
The typical Wambo woman is old fashioned and slow-witted, not
quick to understand specific issues related to general knowledge, social trends
and modern lifestyle. She has high suspicion for new ideas and things which she
is not exposed to. She is predisposed to superstitious beliefs and doubts. Her uninformed
attitude, sincerity and seriousness can be quite hilarious when you are arguing
with her.
Wambo women have a simple lifestyle, they are not into
alcohol abuse, smoking or drugs. If she is drinking, she drinks moderately and responsibly.
She is responsible with money and other opportunities that come her way.
Wambo women are always looking for opportunities to work,
generate an income and settle down. They like a stable lifestyle and
relationship in an environment of peace and orderliness.
When it comes to sex, the typical Wambo woman performs quite
badly. She is not well-versed with secrets and skills to spice up the bedroom. She
lacks that sensuality, spirit and touch that makes up for good sex.
