It doesn’t matter what kind of a guy you
are, a career guy, a wealthy businessman, a musician, an Instagram celebrity, a
sportsperson, a Facebook cutie, whether you drive a big car or small car, whether
you live in Klein Windhoek or Otjomuise, whether you have a big house or small
house, whether you are a man of status or average guy in the street, there is a
90% probability that your Namibian woman is a cheater, a chancer, a gold digger
or a dick-chasing slut. You are simply one of her options, and you are probably
sharing her with 5 other guys. Sorry to bust your pride, but the reason why
some Namibian men resort to gender violence (crimes of passion) is that they
don’t understand the woman they are dealing with.
We have seen a lot of guys in Namibia, from
the wealthy to the poor, committing crimes of passion, so don’t tell me this is
an issue of poverty or money. There are guys who love to jump to the defence of
women in anything (maybe they think they will get some pussy), but these are
the same guys who often get into trouble with women because they are blind to
the imperfections of women. These are guys who will blow up at the end.
You see, you should treat a whore like a
whore. You have to know different types of whores, some of them are not easily
identified, they tend to come in a sheep’s coat. The mistake that some guys
make is that they have no clue, because of blind faith and sheer stupidity. It
has been said, again and again, you can’t turn a whore into a housewife. The
moment you leave for work, she will be flirting with guys on Whatsapp, Facebook,
Badoo and yes AdultHub, sexting and sending juicy pictures. If you can’t date a
whore, then what is the use of a whore? A whore is only good for part-time SEX.
Period. Don’t take it any further or else you will be disappointed. Your
association with a whore should end with NSA (No Strings Attached) fun e.g.
one-night stands, casual sex, and all the indulgences that whores offer in a
bid to hook a man. Meanwhile, you should be looking for a decent wife
elsewhere, even if it means travelling to a faraway land. There are good women
in the world, but Namibia is simply too small to find a decent woman.
You see, the Namibian woman is not loyal,
she is a drifter, a chancer driven by nothing but her whims, fears and desire
to get what she thinks she is owed. She has no motivation to work hard like the
Filipino, American, Indian or Thai woman because she believes things are supposed
to be smooth for an ‘African Queen’. To her, working hard at anything (for her
own benefit) is like a shame, some form of slavery and something beneath her. She
is not only lazy and unfaithful but she can also be inconsiderate. The
underlying cause of these problems is a culture that does not instill values in
youngsters, as well as Women’s Rights Groups that like misleading women.
A person with no values has no direction. On
Monday, she will sleep with a taxi driver, On Tuesday, she will sleep with a
Bank Manager, On Wednesday, she will sleep with a swag master....Let me dive
into the mindset of a Namibian woman.
Fantasy
The Namibian woman lives in a fantasy
world, she watches a Hip Hop music video, and thinks that you can actually get
a man by twerking at the club or wearing something skimpy, but all she gets is
a man who only wants her for the night or when he is horny. Ten years of
clubbing hopping, showing some cleavage and dressing to kill, yields nothing
but frustration and disappointment. The guys who date her always relegate her
to sidechick status or that Friday chick who likes going down on him.
Priorities
The Namibian woman sees an independent
woman driving a Honda Vezel, and she thinks that her boyfriend or husband
bought it for her. She doesn’t know or understand that if you put school and
your education first, if you spend sleepless nights studying, you will obtain
the key to a high paying job that allows you to buy big cars. But for most
Namibian women, getting pregnant at 17 or 20 years is a top priority. It is a
proud badge that she flaunts around.
Parasite
The Namibian woman sees a guy at Pick n Pay
or Shoprite filling a shopping trolley with chicken, pies, drinks, takeaways,
cheese, wine, beef, chips, KFC,sea food, potatoes, banana bread, ice cream,
yoghurt, McDonalds, chocolates etc, and she thinks “shit, men are ATM cards, I
should also get one for myself”. She thinks money grows on trees, she thinks
some people get what they want because they have rich friends. She doesn’t
think of working hard and upgrading herself but her idea of success is leeching
on successful people and sucking up to them. All along, she tries to put
herself in a class of flamboyant people, boasting of things that are not hers
and trying to associate with rich/famous people who don’t really like her.
Self
Delusions
The Namibian woman tries to imitate
Hollywood stars in vain (e.g.Nicki Minaj, Beyonce).She is also influenced by
Soap operas such as Telemundo, Isidingo and Muvhango. She thinks talking,
behaving and dressing like these characters will change her life. She is the
type of woman who will scheme things after watching a movie. By imitating these
stars, she thinks she will attract hot guys and wealthy men. Unfortunately,
success cannot be achieved by imitating the mannerisms of another person. Our
Namibian girls forget that they are in Africa, not the USA.Just because Nicki
Minaj is a millionaire, it does not mean that you will also be a millionaire by
shaking your booty on Facebook or dancing at Ramatex, Otjomuise.
At the end of the day, the Namibian woman
wastes her life, potential and energy on things that are clearly out of reach
for her. She wastes time trying to enjoy the sweat of other people, trying to
become a part of someone’s life. Someone who doesn’t need her. She is not
capable of creating a genuine relationship. The sad thing is that she doesn’t
know that she is a whore.
As time goes on, she looks for divine
intervention .She starts following TB Joshua and Pastor Bushiri. You see, most
of these African women who follow prophets like Bushiri are gold diggers and
lazy people who expect manna from heaven. They are not praying for peace,
strength or success but they are praying for rich guys, they are praying for
guys with cars.
Well, you will end up on Pastor Bushiri’s
Facebook Page if you don’t work hard, if you hate school, and if you plan to be
a whore and parasite.
